We’ve all wondered what it might be like to have a fling with no strings attached. And there’s nothing wrong with that! The beauty of a fling is it’s an outlet to feel loved, and give love, without making any huge commitments for the future. Below are five fling tips for the adventurous:
1. Keep things casual.
The first thing to remember, before anything starts between you and your fling, is that this is just that – a casual fling. Be upfront with each other about your expectations so that the flirty fun doesn’t lead to disaster.
2. Be spontaneous.
Once you’ve spotted you dream gal or guy on Fling.com, strike up a chat. If there’s any interest, try suggesting a midnight movie with heavy petting or a romantic walk that ends in hooking up in a park. If you’re rejected, don’t sweat it. Whatever, there’s nothing to lose!
3. Don’t be afraid to make the first move.
Sometimes it’s hard to read other peoples signals, and other times they are just to shy to make the first move without some encouragement. There’s no reason to worry about coming off as a fool. Although, if sex is all you’re after don’t push it too soon- ie within the first few sentences you get out past hello is NOT the time to suggest a roll in the sack.
4. Use the internet!
If you’re having a hard time finding that fling you’ve always wanted in person, don’t despair. There are plenty of websites out there that will help you find that perfect someone for an amazing, earth shattering experience. Try signing up and browsing through Fling.com and AdultFriendFinder.com.
5. And lastly, have fun!
Get out there and enjoy yourself. Don’t hold onto any past reservations that you might have had- after all, this is a new person. Take this as a time to experiement and try out new things you may have never had a chance to do – or have done before!
Experience that unforgettable fling you’ve always dreamed about.