There seems to be a common misconception that sexuality is a straight-forward thing. That you are either gay or straight. In reality, sexuality is on a continuum, with many different possibilities and no one answer.
Somebody might consider themselves to be straight, but dreams about same sex relations, or someone who considers themselves strictly gay but still has fantasies about the opposite sex from time to time.
There is some research to support the idea that everyone has thought about being with the same sex at some point in their lives, whether they consider themselves gay or not. The Kinsey Scale is a theory that hypothesizes that there is a continuing scale of sexuality, and that people can fall into various categories across the scale.
So if you are having a tough time in the straight world, maybe the time is right to dip your toes into the online world of gay dating or if your gay maybe some straight dating will be a refreshing change…